Supporting Your Children Through Grief
Brenda Gibbs Brenda Gibbs

Supporting Your Children Through Grief

Dealing with the loss of a parent can be a profoundly traumatic experience when it is unexpected, especially for young families. This unexpected loss is more intense, and the emotional impact resonates deeply within the family unit. Recognizing the unique challenges each child faces at different cognitive developmental stages is key to providing effective support.

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 Guide to Parenting After Spousal Loss
Brenda Gibbs Brenda Gibbs

Guide to Parenting After Spousal Loss

In the realm of grief, the loss of a spouse or parent can be a devastating blow, especially for young families. The emotional turbulence that ensues is profound, and for those left behind, the first 5-6 months are akin to navigating through a storm where the waves of grief are relentless, crashing against the fragile stability of daily life.

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Traumatic Loss: Grief Creed
Brenda Gibbs Brenda Gibbs

Traumatic Loss: Grief Creed

I believe that grief is a complex and non-linear process, requiring time, courage, and energy. I grant myself the permission to grief in my own way.

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Coping with Survivor Guilt After Suicide Loss
Brenda Gibbs Brenda Gibbs

Coping with Survivor Guilt After Suicide Loss

Survivor guilt is a powerful and debilitating emotion that often haunts those left behind after a suicide. It stems from the belief that somehow, you could have prevented the tragedy, or that you bear some responsibility for the loss. This guilt can manifest in various ways, such as feeling responsible for not having seen any signs or not having intervened in time. In reality, suicidal individuals often hide their pain well, making it nearly impossible for friends and family to recognize the depth of their suffering.

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Understanding Suicide Loss: Why did this happen?
Brenda Gibbs Brenda Gibbs

Understanding Suicide Loss: Why did this happen?

Suicide, a profoundly tragic and deeply perplexing act, leaves in its wake a trail of heartache that defies understanding. Within the shock of this loss, survivors frantically search for the understanding how their loved one came to this decision. Today I want to offer a guiding hand to those who are grappling with the loss of a loved one to suicide.

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Embracing Hope: 8 Self-Care Tips in Grief
Brenda Gibbs Brenda Gibbs

Embracing Hope: 8 Self-Care Tips in Grief

Grief often feels like an endless tunnel with no light, but caring for yourself can gently illuminate the path ahead. It's a proclamation that even in the darkest times, we dare to believe in a future that holds restoration and renewed joy. Hope is the ember that survives even the fiercest storm, and self-care is the gentle breath that fans it into a flame.

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Grief's Transformative Power: Personal Growth After Loss 
Brenda Gibbs Brenda Gibbs

Grief's Transformative Power: Personal Growth After Loss 

In the midst of heartache and despair, grief can unexpectedly become a powerful catalyst for personal growth and transformation. As a grief counselor and transformational coach, I have witnessed firsthand the remarkable resilience that individuals can exhibit in the face of loss.

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How to Use Distraction to Help Monitor Your Grief
Brenda Gibbs Brenda Gibbs

How to Use Distraction to Help Monitor Your Grief

Dealing with grief can be an overwhelming and painful experience. It is a journey that affects each person differently, making it essential to find effective coping strategies. While distraction may seem counterintuitive when it comes to grieving, it can actually serve as a valuable tool for managing your emotions. In this article, we will explore how to use distraction to help manage your grief.

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Coping with the Loss of a Sibling: Navigating a Profound Grief
Brenda Gibbs Brenda Gibbs

Coping with the Loss of a Sibling: Navigating a Profound Grief

Losing a sibling is an immense and deeply personal loss. As we navigate the turbulent waters of grief, it is crucial to extend compassion and understanding to ourselves and those around us. Embracing support, cherishing memories, and prioritizing self-care can provide solace and help us move forward with resilience. Although the pain may never fully subside, by honouring our siblings' legacies and finding meaning in our lives, we can embark on a journey of healing and growth while keeping their memory alive in our hearts.

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Fatherless Father's Day: Honouring and Remembering the Beloved Dads We've Lost
Brenda Gibbs Brenda Gibbs

Fatherless Father's Day: Honouring and Remembering the Beloved Dads We've Lost

Father's Day is a bittersweet occasion for many individuals who have experienced the loss of their fathers. The absence of a father figure can be particularly challenging on this day, reminding us of the profound void left behind. However, amidst the sorrow, there are ways to commemorate our beloved dads, honouring their memory and finding solace in the cherished moments we shared. In this article, we will explore strategies for coping with Father's Day after the loss of a father, as well as ideas for honoring and remembering these extraordinary men.

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What is the Difference Between Grief and Traumatic Grief?
Brenda Gibbs Brenda Gibbs

What is the Difference Between Grief and Traumatic Grief?

Grief is a normal and natural response to loss, and it is something that everyone experiences at some point in their lives. Traumatic grief, however, is a more intense form of grief that can be caused by a traumatic event or experience. While both forms of grief involve feelings of sadness, pain, anger, and anxiety, there are some key differences between them.

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Motherless Mothers Day
Brenda Gibbs Brenda Gibbs

Motherless Mothers Day

The Sunday before the designated Mother’s Day has now been deemed as Motherless Mothers Day. This day allows those to join together in their loss while honouring their absent mother. Mother’s Day is a special day for many, but for those who have lost their mothers, it can be a difficult reminder of the absence, especially for the first couple years. The following suggestions are possible ways to spend the day that continues and honours your maternal relationship.

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Hope
Brenda Gibbs Brenda Gibbs

Hope

Hope is an attitude, a mindset that allows a grounded and optimistic outlook, even in the most challenging circumstances. Thus it is within times of adversity when we learn how to hope, not in times of ease. It is within these challenges that we believe we have the power to change our lives. Our hope is not a fixed entity but has degrees and can be activated and cultivated.

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Winter Blues
Brenda Gibbs Brenda Gibbs

Winter Blues

With the shorter days and colder winter months, many people experience what is often called the winter blues. It’s not uncommon to feel fatigue, sadness, difficulty concentrating, and a disruption in your sleep schedule during the winter season. Adding a dose of grief to the seasonal mix can increase the impulse to isolate, ignore self-care habits, can exacerbate feelings of depression.

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Holiday Grief Creed
Brenda Gibbs Brenda Gibbs

Holiday Grief Creed

Grief in the holidays can be a heavy load at times. Grief seems magnified during this time of year. Conflicting emotions and desires can create real tension within: you want to be happy with your family and friends, yet the absence of your loved one is so painful at the same time.

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7 Types of Grief
Brenda Gibbs Brenda Gibbs

7 Types of Grief

Did you know there are 7 types of grief? Isn't everybody’s grief the same? Yes, grief is all the deeply personal internal experience of your thoughts and feeling and this sounds straightforward. Yet, our grief and how we cope with the loss is greatly impacted by factors surrounding the loss.

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Coping with Grief
Brenda Gibbs Brenda Gibbs

Coping with Grief

There are many symptoms of grief that can be overwhelming. Here is a list of ways to gain control and cope with your expression of grief.

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Anxiety Grounding Techniques
Brenda Gibbs Brenda Gibbs

Anxiety Grounding Techniques

Why does grief and anxiety go together? Since anxiety is a stress response and grief is certainly a stress, it makes sense that they can go together. Your loss may be recent or many years ago, but anxiety can become an expression of grief that you may not realize.

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