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Cleaning Out the Closet

Cleaning out a loved one’s belongings after their passing is one of the most emotionally complex parts of grieving. It’s a deeply personal process that can feel like a delicate balance between holding on and letting go. Among all the tasks that come with this, sorting through clothes often feels the most intimate. These were the pieces they wore, the items closest to their skin, tied to their scent, and the memories of everyday moments. How do you navigate this task without feeling like you’re erasing their presence?

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Tips to Survive Grief and Seasonal Affective Disorder

As the seasons change and winter settles in, many of us feel a shift in our mood. The shorter days, colder temperatures, and lack of sunlight can bring about a condition known as Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). For those already navigating the challenging path of grief, the impact of SAD can feel particularly heavy. Grief is a complex, deeply personal experience, and when paired with seasonal mood changes, it can feel overwhelming. However, there are ways to navigate this season with resilience and care, and one of the most beautiful approaches is inspired by the Scandinavian concept of “hygge.”

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Guide to Parenting After Spousal Loss

In the realm of grief, the loss of a spouse or parent can be a devastating blow, especially for young families. The emotional turbulence that ensues is profound, and for those left behind, the first 5-6 months are akin to navigating through a storm where the waves of grief are relentless, crashing against the fragile stability of daily life.

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Understanding Suicide Loss: Why did this happen?

Suicide, a profoundly tragic and deeply perplexing act, leaves in its wake a trail of heartache that defies understanding. Within the shock of this loss, survivors frantically search for the understanding how their loved one came to this decision. Today I want to offer a guiding hand to those who are grappling with the loss of a loved one to suicide.

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Embracing Hope: 8 Self-Care Tips in Grief

Grief often feels like an endless tunnel with no light, but caring for yourself can gently illuminate the path ahead. It's a proclamation that even in the darkest times, we dare to believe in a future that holds restoration and renewed joy. Hope is the ember that survives even the fiercest storm, and self-care is the gentle breath that fans it into a flame.

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How to Use Distraction to Help Monitor Your Grief

Dealing with grief can be an overwhelming and painful experience. It is a journey that affects each person differently, making it essential to find effective coping strategies. While distraction may seem counterintuitive when it comes to grieving, it can actually serve as a valuable tool for managing your emotions. In this article, we will explore how to use distraction to help manage your grief.

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Coping with the Loss of a Sibling: Navigating a Profound Grief

Losing a sibling is an immense and deeply personal loss. As we navigate the turbulent waters of grief, it is crucial to extend compassion and understanding to ourselves and those around us. Embracing support, cherishing memories, and prioritizing self-care can provide solace and help us move forward with resilience. Although the pain may never fully subside, by honouring our siblings' legacies and finding meaning in our lives, we can embark on a journey of healing and growth while keeping their memory alive in our hearts.

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Hope

Hope is an attitude, a mindset that allows a grounded and optimistic outlook, even in the most challenging circumstances. Thus it is within times of adversity when we learn how to hope, not in times of ease. It is within these challenges that we believe we have the power to change our lives. Our hope is not a fixed entity but has degrees and can be activated and cultivated.

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Anxiety Grounding Techniques

Why does grief and anxiety go together? Since anxiety is a stress response and grief is certainly a stress, it makes sense that they can go together. Your loss may be recent or many years ago, but anxiety can become an expression of grief that you may not realize.

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Losses without Death

The grief in these non-death losses are as valid as the grief caused by death. Get support and learn about grief in all its forms as a way to strengthen and provide additional support knowing that you are experiencing grief and that is okay. You too need to create your coping kit to first manage the stressful situation and then to eventually move from the old you to the new you.

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Anniversary of Death Grief Response

You may begin to experience anniversary grief response as you approach the upcoming date. The following list may be some of the signs you are experiencing an anniversary grief response: increased feelings of sadness, loss, depression, loneliness, anxiety, fatigue, irritability or anger, as well as physical symptoms, such as sleeplessness, lack of an appetite, difficulty concentrating or an increase in distressing memories, among other things. But you have made it through a full year and if you allow it, hope for the future can be also felt. 

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